Speaking of scientific studies, an important one came out in 2016 that explored the concept of bud sex ( see link). The research centered on heterosexual men who live in rural America. I felt my cheeks burn red with embarrassment, but I was too far gone now. In my mind I had made the decision. In other words, they are trying to demonstrate to themselves that they really are straight. Sometimes, this means that they’ll let another guy swallow them but they won’t reciprocate. I didn’t know until after he broke up with his girlfriend that he hadn’t gotten a blow job the whole time they were together—four years!” Sam said. “When I told him I’d be happy to help him out, I was joking. I swear I wasn’t making a pass at my straight friend! But there was this long pause, and then he got serious and said he’d be into it. I wondered for a minute if it would be weird for me to blow my friend, and there was definitely a bit of convincing each other that we were serious. When he started taking his clothes off, I thought, ‘So this is going to happen.’ It was not awkward after. We even started joking about it right away.”

I found my way to the room and put my bag away. It was already 8pm by the time I got there so I was planning on just having a night in.

3. Prove Straightness

When I was 25-years old, I was in the Marine Corp at Camp Pendleton. There was a curious guy I would regularly get with. He wasn’t gay but because we were in basic training for 12 weeks, we were in close quarters. In fact, lots of straight guys in the military do this type of thing. Don’t ever be ashamed that you are into heterosexual men getting it on with each other. Let’s be real – it’s totally hot. Plus, there’s something cool about watching straight guys explore one another.

I recognize that part of the “flavor” is psychologically based. But in the final analysis, the end result is a yummier load. Well, at least for me. The next day I went for my meeting which was boring, it was mainly just the company telling me how we could be doing better for them. He was so big I could only get an inch past the head into my mouth but I did my best to please him. Bobbing up and down whilst on my knees.I walked to the reception of the dingy hotel my work had set up with for my meeting. It was usual for the company to get the cheapest one as possible and this was just that.

I peered out of the window and saw a very large man stood outside the door next to mine. He was a big, white man, over 6 foot. He wore blue jeans and a tight white t-shirt that showed off his muscles. An example is mutual attraction. In this situation, the hetero guy is attracted to the other man and uses money as a permission slip to blow him. I cleaned myself up and got into bed, relaxed but also annoyed that I couldn't control my urges yet again.The other example is pure money. In other words, some straight guys are so broke that they’ll do anything for cash. I know an auto-mechanic who regularly does oral on a buddy of mine for a certain dollar amount. I spread my legs and moved my hand below my shaved balls and to my shaved arsehole. With my finger well covered in lube, I pressed it against my untouched hole and pushed. I'm not in amazing shape, maybe a little dad bod coming but in my younger days I had a body like his.